Wonderheart

One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.

Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and
said “Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine.“ The crowd and the young man looked at the old man’s heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn’t fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were
missing. The people stared – how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought?

The young man looked at the old man’s heart and saw its state
and laughed. "You must be joking,” he said. “Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears.” “Yes,” said the old man, “Yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren’t exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared. Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn’t returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges – giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his
offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man’s heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.

The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since

Shades of Grey!

    

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Life, Love, Relationships, Politics, Business , Religion and in fact everything has different many shades of grey. If you want to make it any one thing, take your nose out of your paint bucket, then take a few steps back and  look at the canvas. As you focus on the thing with your new perspective, you find that adding those shades of grey will complete your masterpiece, better your life and help you grow close the world around you!

So, Do you add those shades of Grey  to your picture ? OR are you stuck with trying to paint them with black and white ?

In real life,,,,

Many of us make mistake when judging a situation, or when arriving to a decision.Because, we apply black or white rule and leave out the various shades of grey. If you go to any situation with a bucket of just black or white you risk missing out a lot of beautiful details that could make the overall picture much more clear. 

So, My Dear Readers! In Life, there are many shades of Grey! Please, Think a little out of the black or white box. And nourish the beautiful relations. 

why not exercise your tongue much ?

Hello Readers !!!

Yes, after a long time, 

I am back to my world of sharing thougths......

Well I hope by now you have understood from the title that this blog is not about something kinda teaching you some "yog" for tongue twisting exercise.

LOL... sorry that was very lame :D

My dear, Ladies and gentlemen, this blog is about Communication.Not the tring tring tring ......one

no, no, no!

Rather, the one which you and me should use frequently, the speaking your heart out one, the one in which the words comes out of your mouth!Well, if man has evolved and managed to learn to speak in all those different languages you put in your resume, why not use them to express your emotions. How difficult can it be ? I am not saying it's easy! It's not. Sometimes it needs  a lot of courage of it ! But you have to say at one time or the other.

Let me take a simple Example :

So, here's a situation, 

 

You are walking down to the street and find a pretty dress in the display, you analyse if you need it or not. And finally, when you have thought enough, you enter the store. So here is the question
Do you stand there and stare at the owner of the shop, in a hope that he might understand that you just saw a beautiful dress in the display and walked inside the  store to buy it ?
The answer is NO!
You go straight to him and ask him about the dress in the display!

There ! So Simple

Then in real life, why do we hesitate so much ? Hesitate to speak to our loved ones, to whom we have known for a short of good enough time! why do we only analyze if we should say it or not, as a conclusion you decide to say it ! and finally when you actually have to say it, We hesitate !

Why do we decide to hold on our thoughts, until they become doubts....

Also, Very Important point...
I don't understand that why do people have to use technology so excessively! I mean I like technology, love it actually, a single click on the screen is connecting you to the next person .But, there are somethings that YOU SHOULD NOT SAY ON TEXT MESSAGE !

like I can understand if you are busy and you can't be there for dinner...
but don't keep this as a habit later on..

Oooh breakup there ! don't be like HIM ;P

You can't just send a text message about something so serious.

As a conclusion,  Communication is not only good for home,to maintain and build a new relation but anywhere!  So, why don't we say it or tell people about what we feel more often.Could be any ideas, marriage proposals, anything that is necessary to say it.

I hope you liked this, Remember , We can make a difference !But, for that we need to try ! 
 

YES!+ Today's chapter .

"Learn to listen what the other person is saying not what is convenient.
  Integrity of our  relationships  will  be much  stronger, if  we learned how to       listen   and  communicate sincerely.” 

                                                   Stand Up!

If you don’t stand for something, you might just end up falling for everything. So stand up for basic humanity, stand up for integrity, stand up for yourself.