Shades of Grey!

    

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Life, Love, Relationships, Politics, Business , Religion and in fact everything has different many shades of grey. If you want to make it any one thing, take your nose out of your paint bucket, then take a few steps back and  look at the canvas. As you focus on the thing with your new perspective, you find that adding those shades of grey will complete your masterpiece, better your life and help you grow close the world around you!

So, Do you add those shades of Grey  to your picture ? OR are you stuck with trying to paint them with black and white ?

In real life,,,,

Many of us make mistake when judging a situation, or when arriving to a decision.Because, we apply black or white rule and leave out the various shades of grey. If you go to any situation with a bucket of just black or white you risk missing out a lot of beautiful details that could make the overall picture much more clear. 

So, My Dear Readers! In Life, there are many shades of Grey! Please, Think a little out of the black or white box. And nourish the beautiful relations. 

why not exercise your tongue much ?

Hello Readers !!!

Yes, after a long time, 

I am back to my world of sharing thougths......

Well I hope by now you have understood from the title that this blog is not about something kinda teaching you some "yog" for tongue twisting exercise.

LOL... sorry that was very lame :D

My dear, Ladies and gentlemen, this blog is about Communication.Not the tring tring tring ......one

no, no, no!

Rather, the one which you and me should use frequently, the speaking your heart out one, the one in which the words comes out of your mouth!Well, if man has evolved and managed to learn to speak in all those different languages you put in your resume, why not use them to express your emotions. How difficult can it be ? I am not saying it's easy! It's not. Sometimes it needs  a lot of courage of it ! But you have to say at one time or the other.

Let me take a simple Example :

So, here's a situation, 

 

You are walking down to the street and find a pretty dress in the display, you analyse if you need it or not. And finally, when you have thought enough, you enter the store. So here is the question
Do you stand there and stare at the owner of the shop, in a hope that he might understand that you just saw a beautiful dress in the display and walked inside the  store to buy it ?
The answer is NO!
You go straight to him and ask him about the dress in the display!

There ! So Simple

Then in real life, why do we hesitate so much ? Hesitate to speak to our loved ones, to whom we have known for a short of good enough time! why do we only analyze if we should say it or not, as a conclusion you decide to say it ! and finally when you actually have to say it, We hesitate !

Why do we decide to hold on our thoughts, until they become doubts....

Also, Very Important point...
I don't understand that why do people have to use technology so excessively! I mean I like technology, love it actually, a single click on the screen is connecting you to the next person .But, there are somethings that YOU SHOULD NOT SAY ON TEXT MESSAGE !

like I can understand if you are busy and you can't be there for dinner...
but don't keep this as a habit later on..

Oooh breakup there ! don't be like HIM ;P

You can't just send a text message about something so serious.

As a conclusion,  Communication is not only good for home,to maintain and build a new relation but anywhere!  So, why don't we say it or tell people about what we feel more often.Could be any ideas, marriage proposals, anything that is necessary to say it.

I hope you liked this, Remember , We can make a difference !But, for that we need to try ! 
 

YES!+ Today's chapter .

"Learn to listen what the other person is saying not what is convenient.
  Integrity of our  relationships  will  be much  stronger, if  we learned how to       listen   and  communicate sincerely.” 

                                                   Stand Up!

If you don’t stand for something, you might just end up falling for everything. So stand up for basic humanity, stand up for integrity, stand up for yourself.

 

Neerja : The Best Watched Movie (Review)

Yes, Today is Saturday, All of sudden made up the plan of Neerja Movie. 

Neerja  : The Character of Selflessness and Courageous!

                                 (A Powerful real story of Neerja Bhanot who was a flight attendent and was killed by the terrorist saving the passengers on board hijacked on Flight in 1986.)

 













Every bit of the movie seems to be so real.

The best part of the movie is the Parallel stories...
Starting from the beginning,,,... 
The bursting of balloons in the party on the one hand and the bombs on the other side.
In plane Neerja's  past marital abuse in focus and a terrorism of another kind.


She reads two letters in a movie :
1.A letter of her husband to her family.
2. Later , A letter Jaideep(Letter for marrying to him)to her.

"An Ordinary person can make a difference if he/she try"
Her Experience of an rough and failed marriage her painful memories made her to be brave ahead.
  
I came out of theatre with my wet-eyes.

Hyderabad Trip !

 NT Gardens

Birla Temple

Black Tree

Chowmahal Palace

 

 

Golconda Fort

Hyderabadi Biryani.

Fine Lines

There's a fine line between love & hate.
There's a fine line between trying & giving up.
There's a fine line between understanding someone & not understanding someone.

But, the line is so fine or i can say sometime its not  even there, you think you fully understand someone and have found a perfect match, yet sometimes it just doesn't make sense, its hard to choose.

It's petty,
Yes, shit happens,
I've learnt lessons that the world is filled with peope who comes in all kinds- shapes, sizes, colors, personalities and I try to accept for what they are & move on.

But again,
In moving on, we hang on to the few of the previous who we know we can depend on who we know we can still talk to without trying too hard to make sense,
the one's we don't have to try too hard to be in touch with,
the one's who will probably never fade away from your mind.

There's a fine line between forgetting & not forgetting. I have a REALLY good memory. 

February !!! The shortest month and many more....

So, A pretty girl holding bunch of Red Roses and the month of February,,,  uhm... Yes... Guess... What ahead i shall write on this. Yes, It's start from V.. Valentine's Day.

The REAL meaning of Valentine day.

A day to express your love. It's all about LOVE, sharing and giving.

 Honestly If I say nothing else matters. The size of our homes, bank balance, the beauty of our partner, the outlooks, the speed of the car- all those things pale into insignificance when we face the splendour of what it is that make us thick.

For me In a simple language it is the ride which makes worthwhile. It actually makes us human who sing, dance with remembering those romantic memories

I don't want to celebrate my Valentine day by spending huge prics on dozen of roses or by candle lit dinner and fancy gifts. Because it seems you are proving and validating your love on just one day by being nice to your partner.

Ultimately the roses have died and the chocolates have all been went to the stomach at the end of the day.

" THE HEART MUST BE OPENED FOR LOVE TO FLOW NOT JUST ON THIS ONE DAY, BUT IT SHOULD HAPPEN AT ANY MOMENT !!!"