Do I need to hide Who I am in real ?

This is just to share today's Incident. . .

So, the scene is like my parents are looking for a person to whom I shall marry. .
In lame language Mere hone vale husband, Unke liye Daamad,  pure arrange marriage. . .

So, they are preparing my Bio-data, storing my nice pictures in their gadgates to show to relatives or i can say matrimonial references/ portal.

I was shocked when they asked me to remove the pictures in which there are boys standing next to me from all social media, also to change my FB settings , from public/Friend's friends to ONLY FRIENDS.

I was like R u people have gone mad ?

This is Who I am . . .

Yes, I have majority male friends,
There is nothing wrong in this.

Grow Up !

I am a person who believes in space.

Space to explore,
Space to feel emotional fully,
Space to expand,
Space to me & my dreams,
Space to me & my lifestyle,
Space to feel the freedom,
Space to select to people,
Space for honesty,
Space for connection,
Space to experience,
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Well, I believe that there should be space in everyone's life. Even after marriage, there should be bond where both the partners should trust on each other since both of them know the difference between best friend & life partner :)

So, Just to get a good matrimonial proposal, I am sorry. I cannot delete picture of mine with my friends from social media's.

Let's be a part of this space !

Slice of Life !

Well , One month of 2019 has also passed away.

Another 11 months of 2019 to go..

Well that's too long to go..

January '19 was quite tough for me..
Starting with my new job role, meet with an accident which caused an injury to my ankle ligament, dad had an By pass surgery, mom was here for few days , the good part of this month was visit to nanded.

And, another good part was a small reunion. Few of my batchmates visited Pune on last weekend (i.e Republic day weekend)

Here are few glimpse of it. . .

 

Thank You to all of you for the wonderful time we all spend on weekend !

Deb, Rakshit, Adi(Lalla), Saundarya,  Samruddhi, Gaurav Gulati & your Flatmates.

Tranformation !!

Tranformation in all the forms.

Today is 12th Jan, 2019.  I completed my 11 months of my first Job. I don't know how long I will be associated with Piaggio. At same time, I am in love with this City. My contract with Piaggio is till July, 2019.
So, countdown begins.. . . .

Last 6 months exact. . .


I am excited for next week.
Reason,

My mom is visiting Pune , I will be spending good time with her,
Me & mom shall be going to Nanded for 2 days.
This is for you My lovely M.O.M  :)

I'm going through many changes at present.

Happy Weekend !

I'm Okay ! Or Am I Okay ?

Date : 10th January, 2019.

I am sitting at my office desk and all of sudden wondering what am i doing ? I'm doing a job, which i am not liking at all.

I keep on motivating myself by saying It's Okay ! , by saying this i get a temporary regaining of strength to get on.

I've spent so long aspiring to be strong woman. 

Strong women ... what does this mean to me ?

Strong like the women who earn their own living, live their own term.

Strong like the women who lift weights &  who turn to kickboxing.

I've not spent much time on myself. 

I'm on the way to redefine, creating new meanings of my own.

~Heena.

2018 End party !

Everyone keep on asking What are your 2018 learnings & what are your new resolutions for 2019 ?

I was just wandering how was my 2018 year ?

Yes, It left with good & bad memories. 

People whom I expected to be there with me, certainly majorly are not in touch anymore.

People whom i never expected that they shall stand with me, they actually were my backsupport during my dark days.

That's how life is !

Sometimes fair :) & sometimes unfair :(

Well, a great thing which happened in this year that is lost 18Kg's in 7months. All the credit goes to my personal trainer Mr. Rahil Pathan. I was 90Kg's & I realized one day in the month of May,18 that now it's high time I should look after my health to live a longer life. I used to listen a lot mene PT lagwaya he.. I always wished kash mein bhi PT lagwa du.. but I didn't had money at that time to hire PT.

But, as the famous saying says "All things are possible for those who believe."

It's been 7 months, I am taking training from Mr. Rahil. He contribute to my belief of loosing weight & my efforts. Thanks to god for making me capable to pay PT from my own salary.

Well, so this is how I ended my year 2018

House party at my pune rented flat. . . 

Here are some glimpse of Year End party with new friends. . .

Lovely Homemade Cupcakes. . .

Credit : Pinki, Magarpatta

(Heena, Rahil, Akash & Madhuri)

Akash & Madhuri : My New Gym vale FRIENDS)

He is my Gym Trainer

~Heena Bachani. . .

Dusshera Celebration at Piaggio Office !

This is my 1st Dusshera Celebration at Piaggio Office. 

I can't believe that we're just two month away from the new year.

It is truly said by someone that Time does this funny thing where it shrinks and expand unannounced. 

Here, are some glimpse of Dusshera Celebration with my colleagues

 

Eagerly waiting for Diwali Celebration.  Also, I would be going to my hometown. Last two years I was not with my family during Diwali.

Happy days of October :)

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Saturday ... Watching Dangal movie!

Today is 5th August !


Last three weeks were damn busy. Lot of Events were there to organize at Piaggio. Also, my gym schedule, but I am not able to focus on my diet. Well, I am asked to follow the Keto Diet in some days, hope for the best.

Yesterday, I watched "Dangal movie." Some scenes brought tears in my eyes. Young Geeta & Babita are really awesome and charming. The best scene when Aamir Khan (Playing Dad role) ask them to get ready at 5 a.m and before starting their training, he as them to have as many as Pani-Puri.

A village mindset is generally, the females/women's are born and as they grow, they are assigned with cleaning & cooking duties. A good thing which is Mr. Phogat begins to wonder the potential in his both daughter's

Well, I cannot conclude with a particular statement to comment on this movie. But, Yes A motivational movie which should be taken as an inspiration and move ahead.

My Learning :

If you have a dream, what you need is : "FOCUS." If you get diverted into any stupidity,you may not be able to achieve what you desire.

Another fact,There are no limits/restriction. All that matters is one's thinking & mindset.