Birthday Girl !

Hello Readers !

You expecting I would write about my birthday celebrations.

Hold On !

4th August, 2019 (i.e Madhuri Mundra's birthday).

We celebrated her birthday and we marked it with travelling all the way to Alibaugh which is almost 170 Kms.

Normally, everyone has a different way to celebrate one's birthday.

So, here our birthday girl whose wish was an good outing somewhere away from pune and have a full to masti.

Saturday, 3rd Aug. We started for Alibaugh from pune followed by a 5 hours of road journey, checkin at hotel, visit to alibaugh beach, i guess that was a glorious moment for all of us. Because, it was heavily raining as in we can feel that rain drops are beating us. and beach was fully covered by fog. We were not able to take any photos of it. Anyways, experiencing it physically was the best moment.

And, then late night, we all had our drinks and a game

To 

Birthday Girl,

Thank You for the party !
I hope you enjoyed your this birthday by celebrating with us.

To
Birthday Girl Best Friend Saru,

You are one of the best person i have meet till now.
Always having smile no matter whatever happens..

will always remember your dialogues,

pata nahi kis-kis ko kidar se leke aye hu ?

hum itni dur se aye he, sirf maddy ke birthday ke liye...

samja jaega,,,,

AGAIN, THE ANOTHER GOOD PART WAS KAROKE !

THERE WAS A FAMILY PICNIC WHICH WAS ALREADY GOING ON AT BEACH. WE JOINED THEM FOR THE SONG 'YEH DOSTI  HUM NAHI TODENGE....'

I must say Life is unpredictable, as in 
any moment anything can happen.
One should live to the moment.

well, i must say if we have performed this at indian idol, audience would have thrown stone on us.

It was nice two days spend with all of you, kya jane phir kab aur kese milenge...

The Black days of my Life

In everyone's life, black days are defined in different ways.

For me, I or I can say we(me, my elder sister and mom) lost lost the pillar of our family(dad) dated 27th May, 2019 at the age of 56 years old.

At this young age, wherein still he has his To Do List pending.

The number 27th is related to so many things (i.e 27th Oct : my birthday, 27th May : Dad's death and chachu & chachi marriage anniversary, my grandfather death was on 27th Jan,..)

I was almost not at home from past 7 years, was always
outside for education and my new job purpose. I can say at this age(25 years old).

I am a person, who doesn't show up caring nature by continuously talking. I genuinely respect from inside and to my believe it is not required to show it out purposely.

The idea of having an entire life without a father - is what keeps me awake at night. These thoughts are the ones  that hit me the hardest and lead me to blackness.

It kills me to think he will never know who I marry or i can never ask him also, is this my right decison ?

16th March, 2019

16th March, 2019 !

This view is from my rented house in Pune.
It was Friday evening.
Sitting in this balcony always takes me back to the old memories.

This space
where I have good & bad both memories.
Few of  them are as below:

Deepika & bhumika coming to this flat & we all three used to do head massage to one another.

Having Tea with all my friends/guest/relatives.

Sometime, at the time of taking some decisions for my Life.

I am not sure how long will be I will be staying here. But, gonna miss this badly.

Well, from today onwards I have only 4 months to serve my current organization.

Next week going to Amritsar with MOM & DAD, a spiritual tour with them. I need to recharge myself. 

Back To Routine !

Last Weekend, I was in my hometown.
It was a sudden plan...
Monday to Thursday at Office, Rushing from Office on thursday evening and then few days in Gujarat (Dahod/Baroda) & monday back to office.

And only two days for the month to end and there's so much stuff pending for me to tie up the loose ends.

Well as the time is moving ahead, I feel like there are so many responsibilities coming on my shoulder...

I am thinking to re-watch few movies such as :

Zindagi Na milegi Doobara, Befikre ..
And Zoya Akhtar films...

I always love to read Horoscope early morning, also for the next day..

My today's horoscope saying me that A good haircut or a good outfit can make a big difference in how you look, and therefore how you feel.

So, I'm confused what should I choose ?

A good hair cut ?

Or

A good outfit ?


I want to heal myself.

I have got dark circles, my face color is becoming dark, beacuse of lack of sleep, stree & not eating healthy food.

Want to re-energize...
Want to H.E.A.L !

Life highs and lows

This is very True.

There are high's and low's in Life.

Life is uncertain.. Infact It is very uncertain.

Yesterday which was 5th Feb, 2019.

So, lot of things to connect with this date.

1. Our new house in dahod is now one year old.
2. Today's Mom & Dad reached at their home (dahod), After his By-Pass Surgery
3. Also, my office desk relocated to a new place.


It was a shcoking surprise for me. This was like i reached office & started my work, there was a notice for me to change my sitting area. My question is still open that is it a good sign or bad sign ?
















Well, Today Rahil got Strawberries for me from Mahabaleshwar. This was a good part of the day.
Thank You for this.

















Looking for some outing in this month. On the other hand, my tickets are booked for Amritsar for next month. Mom dad would be travelling from Gujarat to Amritsar & I shall be travelling from Mumbai to Amritsar.

Also hoping for the upcoming weekend to be a relaxful.  A weekend all to myself. Entirely at home.

See ya :)

February : Month known for Spirit of Love !

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This month is known for Celebrating the Spirit of Love.

The List goes like this 

It starts from 7th Feb to 14th Feb 

Rose Day

Propose Day

Chocolate Day

Teddy Day

Promise Day

Hug Day

Kiss Day

Valentine Day

I was just scrolling my FB page, and suddenly 

I came through an article which titled as below :

This Guy Is Going To Serve Free Chai To All Singles In Ahmedabad On Valentine Day !

I was amazed reading this. This is really an interesting concept / idea.

 But there is much more interesting story behind his shop story named
MBA Chai Chai Wala

Founder : Prafulla Billore  

He said :

“Why should couples have all the fun? Singles need pampering too. Hence we’ll be serving free Chai to singles on Valentine’s Day this year.”

Which is actually True.

To all the single people in Ahmedabad, this is for you on Valentine Day. 

head out to MBA Chai Wala between 7 to 10 pm for a free Chai. It will be an great experience. Take your friends also... 

This man is really an inspiration to me.

Praful couldn’t get into Top-B school, so started tea stall called MBA Chai Wala.

After getting Bachelor’s degree, Prafull Billore tried hard to get into top business schools of India for 2 years. After a lot of struggles, he managed to get admission in an MBA college. But eventually dropped out of the course and started a roadside tea stall with an investment of 8000 rupees.

HatsOff this person. 

Do I need to hide Who I am in real ?

This is just to share today's Incident. . .

So, the scene is like my parents are looking for a person to whom I shall marry. .
In lame language Mere hone vale husband, Unke liye Daamad,  pure arrange marriage. . .

So, they are preparing my Bio-data, storing my nice pictures in their gadgates to show to relatives or i can say matrimonial references/ portal.

I was shocked when they asked me to remove the pictures in which there are boys standing next to me from all social media, also to change my FB settings , from public/Friend's friends to ONLY FRIENDS.

I was like R u people have gone mad ?

This is Who I am . . .

Yes, I have majority male friends,
There is nothing wrong in this.

Grow Up !

I am a person who believes in space.

Space to explore,
Space to feel emotional fully,
Space to expand,
Space to me & my dreams,
Space to me & my lifestyle,
Space to feel the freedom,
Space to select to people,
Space for honesty,
Space for connection,
Space to experience,
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Well, I believe that there should be space in everyone's life. Even after marriage, there should be bond where both the partners should trust on each other since both of them know the difference between best friend & life partner :)

So, Just to get a good matrimonial proposal, I am sorry. I cannot delete picture of mine with my friends from social media's.

Let's be a part of this space !

Slice of Life !

Well , One month of 2019 has also passed away.

Another 11 months of 2019 to go..

Well that's too long to go..

January '19 was quite tough for me..
Starting with my new job role, meet with an accident which caused an injury to my ankle ligament, dad had an By pass surgery, mom was here for few days , the good part of this month was visit to nanded.

And, another good part was a small reunion. Few of my batchmates visited Pune on last weekend (i.e Republic day weekend)

Here are few glimpse of it. . .

 

Thank You to all of you for the wonderful time we all spend on weekend !

Deb, Rakshit, Adi(Lalla), Saundarya,  Samruddhi, Gaurav Gulati & your Flatmates.

Tranformation !!

Tranformation in all the forms.

Today is 12th Jan, 2019.  I completed my 11 months of my first Job. I don't know how long I will be associated with Piaggio. At same time, I am in love with this City. My contract with Piaggio is till July, 2019.
So, countdown begins.. . . .

Last 6 months exact. . .


I am excited for next week.
Reason,

My mom is visiting Pune , I will be spending good time with her,
Me & mom shall be going to Nanded for 2 days.
This is for you My lovely M.O.M  :)

I'm going through many changes at present.

Happy Weekend !

I'm Okay ! Or Am I Okay ?

Date : 10th January, 2019.

I am sitting at my office desk and all of sudden wondering what am i doing ? I'm doing a job, which i am not liking at all.

I keep on motivating myself by saying It's Okay ! , by saying this i get a temporary regaining of strength to get on.

I've spent so long aspiring to be strong woman. 

Strong women ... what does this mean to me ?

Strong like the women who earn their own living, live their own term.

Strong like the women who lift weights &  who turn to kickboxing.

I've not spent much time on myself. 

I'm on the way to redefine, creating new meanings of my own.

~Heena.

2018 End party !

Everyone keep on asking What are your 2018 learnings & what are your new resolutions for 2019 ?

I was just wandering how was my 2018 year ?

Yes, It left with good & bad memories. 

People whom I expected to be there with me, certainly majorly are not in touch anymore.

People whom i never expected that they shall stand with me, they actually were my backsupport during my dark days.

That's how life is !

Sometimes fair :) & sometimes unfair :(

Well, a great thing which happened in this year that is lost 18Kg's in 7months. All the credit goes to my personal trainer Mr. Rahil Pathan. I was 90Kg's & I realized one day in the month of May,18 that now it's high time I should look after my health to live a longer life. I used to listen a lot mene PT lagwaya he.. I always wished kash mein bhi PT lagwa du.. but I didn't had money at that time to hire PT.

But, as the famous saying says "All things are possible for those who believe."

It's been 7 months, I am taking training from Mr. Rahil. He contribute to my belief of loosing weight & my efforts. Thanks to god for making me capable to pay PT from my own salary.

Well, so this is how I ended my year 2018

House party at my pune rented flat. . . 

Here are some glimpse of Year End party with new friends. . .

Lovely Homemade Cupcakes. . .

Credit : Pinki, Magarpatta

(Heena, Rahil, Akash & Madhuri)

Akash & Madhuri : My New Gym vale FRIENDS)

He is my Gym Trainer

~Heena Bachani. . .